The entrapments you feel are not real.  you are doing it to yourself by what youre thinking.  change your thoughts & you'll change your actions which will free you to be the ulitmate you God created you to be.
Yes, it sounds easy & it is....do not struggle with the negative. acknowledge it, embrace it & allow it to flow through you rather than dwelling inside of you. Do not hold onto any thoughts that no longer serve you!!! 
 

reclaiming your power

if you crave unconditional support, validation, approval & love from your friends, family, or boss perhaps its time to dig inside of yourself to see what hole needs filled. do you not feel valuable? worthy? loved? so you wait for them to notice & compliment you. or you become a slave to them hoping they will deposit in your emotional bank account? are you accused of not listening when you truly feel you do? are you the blame of their life going down the drain? do others lie to you & tell you its b/c youre not worth the truth? do they give instructions on how they want to be treated & when you slip up they yell at you for not treating them as told? do they punish you for their own joy? or perhaps they get really tricky & use scripture as an easy out?  if so im asking you to self analyze; ask yourself if its truly YOU or is it THEM??? be honest b/c if part of it is you you will need to be responsible for your actions!!! 
bad behavior as a cover up looks like this; manipulation, lies, blame game, gossip, taking sides, punishment, hurtful messages out of spite, stealing, self centeredness, selfish, ignorance, etc...i ask you if you are the receiver of this abuse why you feel the need to rationalize with them?  are you waiting for the day they will see you for you?  do you believe one day they will finally validate you? belive you? accept you?
today, I ask you to STOP!  they will be ready to be better when they are ready, when bad behavior becomes meaningless to them. until then leave them in your past & you press thru to better!  work at letting go of needing filled by selfish humans.  let go of their negative beliefs, let go of their abuse, let go of a relationship that no longer serves your highest good!  You are worth more than that!  You are valuabe!  You are loved! You deserve to be treated decent!  Please open yourself up & accept 'the ones' that do not want you to succeed arent that interested in you!  anyone who wants to keep you under their thumb for their own amusement is abusing you & youre allowing it!  'they' dont want you to be better, to live in abundance, to love unconditionally, to serve others, why? b/c where would that leave them? I will tell you....with their own kind until they are ready to live the glorious life we are put here to live.
You do have the power to seek what you are looking for, to be what you want to be, to talk how you want to talk, to buy what you want to buy, to dress as you see fit, etc....you don't have the power to press that on anyone else.  Some choose to flow in life like water taking the path of least resistance, that's fine if those are the consequences you want back.   you will reap what you sow; its a universal law!
YOU also have the power to be honest, serving, humble, bold, fearless, joyous, loving, content, peaceful, & not fall subject to drama, chaos, & abuse.  If you are NOT the problem, there is NO solution!  remain blameless
now, go think about this!!!!!

when you pass on...

you will have given your life for something. what's it going to be? your honesty, love, or loyalty? perhaps your zest for life achievements?  giving lost rejected people or pets a place to call home? you can tell what your values have been by recapping how you have lived up to this point. 
what am i getting at?  If you resist making adjustments you solidify the habit of being off course. violating your own values will lead you to pain, suffering, & loss. 
Maybe its time to develop discipline, voicing self-limiting statements, or having some form of excess in diet, drinking, or stress? By listening for needed steps & taking appropriate actions, you may find a profound effet on yor peace & prosperity. 
Make a plan today. what is it you want people to say? (w/out you having to tell them what to say) ~ live the divine life so when your eulogy is read its music to your ears!!!

happiness isnt found 'out there'

infinite bliss is internal. you will only be as happy as the beliefs of your perception.  do you need to change your beliefs in order to find happiness?  perhaps!  do you need the approval of others to be happy? do you 'know' what you truly find joyous? do you believe you deserve it? those are internal.  OR do you shop to fill a void? compete with others for attention? seek medical doctors for attention? hoard?  eat your troubles away?  wait for compliments or affirmations? pretend or lie b/c you think its what your suppose to say or do? do you pick fights with people who question your self worth?  do you isolate yourself or like to mingle to learn? do you truly listen to others or do you listen to talk about your b/c youre self centered?  this is searching externally or outside yourself for happiness.  you WON'T find it out there!!!
OR maybe you've found out the company you've worked for the last 25 years is down sizing & they are letting you go.  youre thrilled at the opportunity of a life style change & embrace the journey.     OR was in a car crash & are still praising God the only thing lost was your car & a few weeks recovery & possible aches & pains as reminders for the rest of your life how lucky you are. do you even know if your a positive or negative person deep in your core?  i can tell you with certainty what you've attracted in your life thus far has been a result of your past thinking & choices in your behavior.  it was all you... IF you're tired of swirling around in circles trying to "get" happy using & abusing external items &/or people its time to come out of your shell & live the glorious life youre jealous of seeing in others!!
You are influenced by the pictures you hold in your mind & the feelings you entertain.  The real work is needed in changing your false beliefs & RE-believing a new truth ~ God's truth!  live in abundance today & for infinity!!!

are you dealing with a crazy maker in your life?

are you currently in a relationship with someone that drains your energy? zaps you of your confidence? makes you feel like you need to deposit or invest so much more than they're willing to offer? are you dealing with someone who loves to talk about themselves, their ailments, their chaos/drama? are you tired of it? are you ready to move forward? are you ready to work on instilling boundaries or limits & not let them manipulate their way through?  YOU do matter!  I'd like to hear your story. i'd like to help you move on & up & away from them holding you back!!

you are the most powerful RIGHT NOW

today i challenge you to only think positive, good, loving thoughts.  when you feel yourself wanting to say or do something negative STOP take a deep breath and refocus that negative energy to its opposite.  I would be glad to help you if you should become stuck.  only here are you allowed to be negative & i promise we will NOT stay in negative!!

Purpose

 Is it your fault you are where you are today?  Is it your fault you haven't yet made the money you believe you're capable of making? Is it???

Yes, i believe it is!!!  certain circumstances brought you to where you are today, that's just called 'so what' move on....you are capable of turning your life around! you are capable of goals setting to gain direction.  You are capable of finding your purpose.  Do you know where to start?